This or Something Better!

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I had worked with manifestation work and the Law of Attraction almost my entire life. I started studying metaphysics and Universal Laws when I was only seven years old. I was drawn by the Magic or rather the Power of the Mind.

My knowledge about metaphysics is one of the reasons to, why I get out on the other side of domestic violence, without ruining my present and future life. One of the things I learned at a very early age, that still is a lifesaver in my present life, is my ability to turn shitty things into gold. Not real gold, but blessings, positive learning lessons, and growth. I don’t believe anything is so bad, that it isn’t good for something.
Sometimes we just have to seek very deeply to find the positive blessing.

No matter if you say “I Can” or “I Can’t”, you’ll be right.

We live in a society where it is popular to complain and tell everyone how bad we feel life treating us. It isn’t helpful for anything, and it will differently not make anyone happier. I leave every time someone starts complaining. That negative energy won’t surround me.

One mistake that I see very often, when it comes to Manifestation and Law of Attraction, is the tendency to outline every single step of the manifestation process. It doesn’t work that way! I have learned that the hard way.

The need to be in control of everything is common human nature. We LOVE to be able to control everything in our lives, but here is the thing;

We don’t have the full picture, and we don’t know which influences our desire outcome meets on its way through the Manifestation Process. We only have our own viewpoints, and that is very limited.
Let’s take an example from the real life.

When I closed my old business last summer, was it with the intention of starting my new business, The Magic Life, in January 2017. It was my goal, and it was what I wanted. I had worked out a very detailed business plan, I knew what I want to do, and everything was in order. I worked on it every day, while I was keeping up with my study… and bam!

I got sick!

Suddenly, I got panic attacks and was so stressed out that it was a living hell inside my head. I still tried to pull it all together to be able to launch my business in January. But the game was over!

I thought I had created my big master plan and could start living my big dream. Everything was perfect on the paper. But there were two missing pieces in that puzzle.
1) I had forgotten that I’m not in control of everything.
2) My health and well-being.

Even though the game was over at that point, it doesn’t mean its totally over. The time wasn’t just right yet, and more importantly…

I have learned some very valuable lessons I wouldn’t have learned if I didn’t get sick.

I have learned, maybe, the most important lesson I ever had learned.

Prioritize my own health, in all its dimensions.

I have declared my life for anything that don’t not serving my highest good.

I have started to prioritize self-love and Sabrina time.

I go to bed earlier and wake up without an alarm clock.

I have decided to live a stress-free life with absolutely no deadlines at all.

I have chosen a minimalistic lifestyle.

If something isn’t a HELL YEAH! Then it’s a no!

If something isn’t stimulating me intellectually or are funny, then I don’t engage in it.

When I prioritize my health so I have more energy and motivation to work on The Magic Life. There is no procrastination even though I don’t do deadlines anymore.

Remember, there is no right or wrong way to live your life. That is the way I had chosen to live my life to keep my sanity. In this insane world.

When I pray to the Universe and the Angels, I always end my prayers with “This or something better!” It is an acknowledges of I can’t see the whole picture (no human being can), and I know the Universe always have the best in store for us. All we have to do is to ask, believe and receive.

Believe that the Universe will make your desired outcome happen, even though we don’t can determine the exact form and time for the manifestation. Or we can, but that will sabotage and slow down the manifestation process.

Receive is the trickiest part because receiving doesn’t mean sitting on your tush and waiting for the Heaven appear to hand over your desired outcome. It just doesn’t happen in that way. First of all, we need to learn to get out of the way and stop trying to control everything, nor figuring everything out. We need to hand over our desire to the Universe and have faith in the manifestation. Just let it go!

Next part of the receiving process is to take guided actions. If you want to become a millionaire, then start to take responsibility for the money you already have, make a budget, and be grateful for your money. Then look into what you can do to make more money in your life. If you, like me, want to live a stress-free life, then take responsibility for your time and look into what makes you feel good, and what stresses you. When you know what stresses you, then cut it out of your life and do more of what you like to do. You can also start practicing self-love and make some healthy boundaries that help you stay stress-free.

It doesn’t have to be difficult at all. Most of the time, all it requires is taking responsibility and make those changes that are necessary for you have the life you want.

When is the last time you didn’t get something you wanted, but it worked out for the better?

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