COVID-19 Lockdown has inspired this article. While the world slowly opens again, some people are still stuck at home.
I know I’m a little late with this article since we’re slowly getting vaccinated, and the restrictions are getting lifted. But Bøglund Lightworker Institute has just launched, which is why the article first is released now.
While COVID-19 was at its highest, I was fighting for my life with a different illness. That said, I’m pretty sure the article will be relevant sooner or later. If nothing else, it will serve as a reminder that there are no limitations of how and when it’s possible to manifest anything.
Most people ask for help with how to manifest a specific person, so I thought it could be fun to mix the two of them together and give you some tricks on how to manifest a specific person when you can’t leave the house.
Step #1 – Make a List of All the Things You Find Attractive About Your Specific Person.
Call it a path of self-discovery… I want you to be honest with yourself about why you’re attracted to your specific person.
Try to jot down all the things you like about your specific person… all the positive traits.
Step #2 – Circle Out All the Things Your Missing.
The go-to phrase to describe the Law of Attraction is “Like Attracts Like.” Another common phrase is “Opposites Attracts” this is usually do describe an unlikely relationship.
The Law of Attraction says “Like Attracts Like” about Energy Frequency. It doesn’t really have anything to do with personality traits per se.
However, usually, we are attracted to people who have traits we’re lacking. We’re inspired by people who are mentally strong, confident (without being cocky), dare to stand up for themselves and what they believe in, and have success stories.
NB: Some people want to be with someone because the person has money, success, fame, and power. That is not an attraction. It’s an opportunist who sees a shortcut to get what they want. I don’t condone that type of behaviour, so I won’t teach you to manifest someone only because you want to take part in their success.
Because you’re manifesting what’s a vibrational match with your Energy Frequency, the manifestation can get blocked if you don’t match with your desired outcome. In this case, the manifestation of a specific person. So I will advise you to take the list with traits you like about your specific person and circle all the traits you missing yourself. Those things would be the things you need to work on to be a vibrational match with your specific person.
Step #3 – Have Faith.
Faith is the most important step in any manifestation process, no matter what you want to manifest. I’m not so much the wish-upon-a-shooting-star idea or “If I believe it hard enough, it will happen!” The Universe isn’t a Fairy Godmother who bibbidibabbidiboo makes all your problems go away and replace them with all your dreams come true. I hate to break it to you, but AIN’T GONNA HAPPEN!
What happens is, when you put the intention to manifest your specific person out to the Universe, the Universe will respond by rearranging things so you and your specific person will eventually meet.
The future is never set in stone. When we, as psychic and forecast readers, predict the future, we can only see the potential future. If you continue to do what you’re doing now, this is what’s going to happen. If you change what you’re doing, then the future would change along with it.
When you’re manifesting something or someone, you have two choices. Continue your life as you always had done and be passive in the manifestation process, or follow the (often silent) inspirationally guidance you receive from the Universe.
Don’t worry! The Universe speaks to you the way where you’re most likely to “hear”. It can be ideas that suddenly pop into your head, inspiring you to do something. It can be the same sentience or picture popping up everywhere you look that inspires you to action. It can be opportunities that find their way to your inbox or DMs.
Just a side note: Be careful with opportunities from random people who slide into your DM. Always check their following count, post count, and if they are real. There are a LOT of scammers online who are on the outlook for easy targets.
I found it easier to have faith (and be patient) if I do something every day that will bring me one step closer to my desired outcome. However, when it comes to a specific person or living beings in general, we need to take their life and journey into consideration.
DO NOT Manipulate others to get what you want.
DO NOT Trick anyone into giving you what you want.
DO NOT Force things to happen.
DO NOT try to Control the narrative.
All it will do is push people away from you and block the manifestation. Also, stay away from cyber-stalking and other creepy behaviour.
When you have faith, you don’t feel the need to “make it happen”, and you definitely don’t feel the need to stalk your specific person. Those actions are acts from the Fear-Based Mind and show distrust in the Universe.
Having Faith in the manifestation process of a specific person really comes down to moving on with your life and focusing on improving yourself to be the best version of yourself.
Step #4 – Surrender and Let Go.
Surrender and Let Go (or Surender and Let God) means you’re moving on with your life, having full faith that everything would work out. True to be told, meeting the people we really want to meet usually happen when we least expect it and isn’t on the outlook. We’re busy with our own doings, having our mind on something completely different, and baaam… the person is standing right in front of you.
We can’t manipulate this into happening. It won’t work to make a decision like “Okay, I’m going to focus on walking my dog, and then my specific person will suddenly show up when I get home.”
The clue is in “when you least expect it!”, which means you need to take it off your radar. So here is the biggest challenge and where most people get stuck in their manifestation process.
Step #5 – Keep Your Mind Occupied With Working on Your Self-Esteem and Self-Love.
To get someone or something off my radar, I prefer to treat it as breaking a habit.
Study shows it takes 21 days to break a habit, and 40 days to change a habit.
Having someone or something on our mind all the time because we really want them or it in our life is a habit. The more we’re thinking about someone or something, the stronger becomes the habit. For some people, it can turn into an addiction and obsessive behaviour. We want to avoid that.
To take someone or something off my radar, I find it helpful to replace it with something else. So every time my mind wanders to what I am trying to surrender, I focus on my replacement.
In the case of manifesting a specific person, I will recommend you replace thinking about the person and anything relating to the person, by focusing on improving your self-esteem and self-love.
We all need to work on our self-esteem and self-love, ESPECIALLY in these times of social media, filters, followers and likes.
A good place to start is working on the traits you circled in step #2, so you can get on a vibrational match with your specific person. BUT!!! Don’t work on the traits with the only purpose of manifesting the person. It’s shady. Working on the traits should be authentic and honest. Otherwise, it won’t work.
Also, if your specific person is good with money, successful, and travelling the world, use that as inspiration to get financially savvy and successful yourself and start travelling the world. DON’T wait for someone to make it happen for you. Being independent and having your own show going on is way more attractive than someone who put their life on hold while waiting for a miracle.
COVID or not…
Lockdown or not…
Isolation or not…
Even social anxiety or not…
Manifesting a specific person is totally doable IF you’re willing to work on improving yourself AND if you can detach yourself from the outcome and focus on enjoying your life right here, right now.