Unfortunately, it’s very common for Lightworkers to end up in Unhealthy Relationships. For some reason, we are like Magnets for Toxic People.
By knowing this… and admitting it, we can change it. The key is to be aware and honest with yourself.
Getting out of a Relationship with a Toxic Person can be very difficult because they often have you in an Invisible Prison and use your Fears, Pain, and Anxieties against you to control you. You may not be afraid of them, but you’re afraid of what would happen to you and everything you care about if you leave them.
My mother is a Narcissist with Psychopathic Traits. She verbally, mentally, physically, emotionally and psychologically abused me for the first 15 years of my life. I got out when I was 15, and the only times I have seen her since then was in court. Since my nephew was born, I have tried to be courteous with her, but it usually doesn’t take her more than 5 minutes before she starts her verbal abuse, gaslighting and manipulation. I have learned to set boundaries and walk away when she crosses my boundaries. Unless it has anything to do with the exchange of important Information, I don’t want to have anything to do with her.
I have PTSD, an anxiety disorder, self-harm, and am prone to depression… all due to my mother being a very Toxic Person.
What I’m trying to say is that I have both knowledge and experience in dealing with Toxic People and having Unhealthy Relationships… trust me… my mother is not the only Toxic Person or Unhealthy Relationship I have had to deal with. As I just said, Lightworkers are Magnets for Toxic People.
#1 – Your Self-Esteem Decreases Every Day.
A Relationship is usually Unhealthy because there is a lot of trash-talking and rude behaviour going back and forth.
You need to remember it takes two to tango! So, you are just as much a part of the issue as the other person. You can always leave, even though it doesn’t feel like it.
Some of the techniques Toxic People use to prevent you from leaving them are talking down to you, belittling you, and making you believe that you can’t live without them.
The more you hear the same things, the more you start to believe them to be true. The more a person calls you bad things, criticises you, belittles you, etc., the more they get into your head. The more a person is in your head, the more influence they have over your Self-Esteem. In other words, they can mess around with your subconsciousness and neurological patterns regarding how you feel about yourself.
“I AM” is the most powerful word in the Universe because when you start a sentence with “I AM”, you’re speaking on behalf of the Source of Love (ed. God).
So, if someone manages to get in your head, and make you believe that you’re stupid and no one likes you, then you’ll begin to affirm to yourself, “I AM stupid, and no one likes me!”. The more you say it, the stronger neurological pattern will form in your subconsciousness and will eventually manifest itself.
The remaining bad things that happen if you don’t leave a Toxic Person or Unhealthy Relationship are:
#2 – They Make You Believe That You Are the Problem.
#3 – They Guilt-Trap You and Manipulate You.
#4 – Your Energy Frequency Decreases Every Day.
#5 – You Get Stuck in an Unnecessary Hell-Loop.
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