Winners take ACTIONS to get their Desired Outcome. Winners don't let outside sources get the power over them, their lives, and their success.
Self-Love, Mental Health & Well-Being

Winners vs Losers: Which One Are You?

No matter what you want to achieve in life, it’s a matter of Mindset.

Not everybody else’s Mindsets!


No matter what’s going on in the World, you have billions of Universal Laws that are helping you all the time to create the life YOU desire. But the Universal Laws can only work with the `Material´ which you give them!

I talk a lot about Manifestations and that your Energy Frequency needs to be in alignment with your Desired Outcome. In this Guide, I want to challenge your self-perception, so you might see why you DON’T get your Desired Outcome.

It’s more likely that it is YOU who unconsciously is blocking your Manifestation – not the Universe, other people, or the world… It’s all on your cape.

Event + Response = Outcome!

I first encountered EVENT + RESPONSE = OUTCOME when I dived into Jack Canfield’s work.

Basically, this equation shows how your RESPONSE to something that happens in your life [EVENT] creates the OUTCOME you experience.

Jack Canfield calls it The Success Formula.

To me, this equation shows how you either Win or Lose in whatever situation you’re in!

Let’s take a current global situation like Russia’s invasion of Ukraine. Not only has the invasion caused a war between Russia and Ukraine, but millions of people have lost their homes, their lives, and their safety. It has also resulted in sky-high inflation all over the world, and it gets difficult to get heat and electricity because no one wants Russian gas anymore.

Worldwide, people are rethinking their finances and trying to make ends meet because the prices on, well, pretty much everything, keep going up.

This EVENT is something that affects all of us. So how can we get successfully out of it? – without having our wallets and bank accounts bleed.

It all comes down to how we choose to approach the situation.

You Have 100% Responsibility!

Most people don’t like being told they have 100% Responsibility. It’s always someone else’s fault, or the state, or the government, or the media, or, or, or…

It’s not your Responsibility that Putin is a sociopathic, narcissistic monster that believes that he has the right to make it rain with bombs over the heads of innocent Ukrainian people.

It’s not your Responsibility that inflation and prices increase with the speed of Light. 

It’s also not your Responsibility that your country has problems importing goods.

And it’s not your Responsibility that the gas supply is lacking.


The way you choose to deal with all these problems is your 100% Responsibility.

Do you pull the Victim card and start complaining about how hard and difficult everything is and how much you suffer in all this?


Do you put on your big girl/boy pants and make a real effort to find a solution to this mess?

It’s All About the Decisions YOU Make.

Your life is one big outcome of your Actions and Reactions.

Taking 100% Responsibility and committing to finding a solution to fix an unwanted situation is what makes someone a Winner. Winners take ACTIONS to get their Desired Outcome.

When a Global crisis happens, like the one we are in right now, Winners make an audit of their plan, make the necessary adjustments, and change some things to make their Action Plan realistic again, and then they move forward again. 

Winners don’t let outside sources get the power over them, their lives, and their success. 

No Decision is ALSO a Decision.

Throughout my entire childhood and teenage years, I would hear my dad say:

“If you do as you always have done, you will get the same results as you always have gotten. If you want different results, you must do something different from what you’re doing now.”

When I’m sharing my story about growing up as an abused child and my relationship with my mother, people always ask me how I could be so strong to leave her. I don’t really see it as being strong; I see it more as I didn’t really have any other choice. If I wanted to survive, I needed to get the hell away from my mother as fast as possible.

I have always refused to play the Victim Card, and I don’t have patience with people who are pulling the Victim Card in front of me.

It’s impossible to help someone who doesn’t want to be helped! – people who feel they are Victims of life have 117 reasons why they can’t do what’s necessary to get their life back on track. They are so comfortable in the Victim role that claim their own Power because taking Responsibility for their Life scares the bejesus out of them. It’s so much easier to blame everybody else for their misery.

That Mindset is guaranteed to Manifest more reasons for them to be Victims and have something to complain about.

When you don’t make a decision or keep procrastinating, it’s because you are afraid of the consequences of making the decision. While you might not like your current situation, you feel more comfortable staying where you are than making the necessary changes so you can achieve your goals.

That’s the difference between Winners and Losers.

Winners respond to events/situations by making the necessary changes or coming up with a new plan to get the outcome they desire.

Losers respond to events/situations by either complaining, blaming, or avoiding making the necessary changes, and therefore their outcome would be more of what they are already experiencing in their lives.

It’s really a question of who has the power in YOUR life:


… or…

Other people?

For this Guide, there is no paid Guide. 

Sabrina Seraphiel Bøglund

Sabrina Seraphiel Bøglund is a Danish Mindset Life Coach, Spiritual Teacher, Manifestation Expert and Writer, who Specialises in Helping Independent People to Break Free from the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse and Toxic Relationships so that They can Manifest Their Dream Life. With over 16 Certifications, over 1½ Decades of experience as a Professional Spiritual Teacher, author of 6 books, including "Manifestation 101" and "Åndelig Kommunikation" (Spiritual Communication), and Growing Up with an Abusive Narcissistic Mother with Psychopathic Traits, Sabrina Knows First-Hand the Power of Mindset and Manifestation. Join her Community Today at and Start Creating the Life You Deserve.

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